In this Interview with theNetng, Maheeda opens up on growing up ,having a baby at 17 and being an orphan.
On sex
A
lot… I'm addicted to sex, and I have to have sex everyday. At least
once everyday, and if there's no guy around me, I'll help myself by
masturbating. I have a lot of sextoys; in fact, I'm a regular customer.
It's like food to me, and you have to eat. It is very healthy and it
gives you the right curves and my body is used to it.
Yes! Sometimes I just squirt, like when am having sex, and because I am used to it and my body needs it.
Yes! Sometimes I just squirt, like when am having sex, and because I am used to it and my body needs it.
On her recent trip to Europe
It
was for business. I went for a birthday party of one big shot and all I
needed to do was just sit down and cross my legs and then I got money
in my account, which was pretty cool. No. I just sat down, sipped some
champagne and made some money. I just went to cross my legs and made
$3000. It was just an appearance. Isn't that cool? Because they want to
see that raunchy chick.
On her pregnancy
On her pregnancy
I got pregnant for my
boyfriend about 13 years ago when I was just 17, in Kano. I think his
family was tribalist because they didn't want me around, so they offered
me N2million, which was a lot of money back then, to leave the baby and
go. I actually wanted to accept the money but I thought to myself,
'Hey, you're an orphan and this is the only blood you have.' So, I left
the money and decided to leave with my daughter
Because I was very
hungry and I was coming from a very poor background. My mum and dad
weren't there. I was 14, living in the streets, where he met me, housed,
and then I eventually got pregnant for him when I was 17. Ever since
then it has been just me and, besides, I don't want to ask anything
because I know they wanted the child and not me, and I can't afford to
lose her. She's the only thing that I have.
Growing up
I never met my dad, but I knew my mum for a while, and then she died and that's all? I don't even know any one of my relatives. My childhood was very lonely. I was always missing this family relationship, which I think is still affecting me till today. I don't know what love is but I think my daughter and my man are beginning to teach me.
A very
nice woman took care of me after my mum died when I was 14. Before her,
there was a Muslim woman taking care of me, because my mum was always
dumping me with different people whenever she was going out to hustle.
Two years with one person, a year with another person. It was just like
that. I didn't have a normal life, and don't know if I still have one.
The Muslim woman taught me how to pray like them. I attended Islamic lessons and learnt the recitation.
On Marriage
When I met my husband, he said he would support my career and that is what has kept me going till date. We have been married for Two years, but we've been dating for about 10 years
On the Nigerian mentality
The Nigerian mentality is very low. It made me look like a fool the first time I went to Europe.
The way we see things, especially seeing sex as evil and not even talking about it even though we desire it. Some people think I'm already possessed, but that's not it. We are not taught honour and there's just a lot we don't know.
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